Ask These Questions To Yourself When You Can’t Decide What To Do!
Last Update on May 1, 2020 : Published on May 2, 2020
Decision making is the ability when we can understand the situation and act accordingly. In other words, it’s an art of acknowledging your particular opinions in a systematic way that proves as a beneficiary in future.
It has been seen when we are unable to take decisions we think, think and overthink to understand what to do. If I talk about myself, I usually lay awake at night and think about the “Right” answers for a tough judgement.
I agree, when we have such difficult times we may get lost for a second or a sense of numbness enters in our body. You could also surround yourself with many questions and start worrying about thinking of the consequences.
Don’t worry my friend, I understand this is suffocating as you can’t understand what could be the wise solution for you. Here I am mentioning the main five questions that will help you to make decisions in a better way!
Ask These Questions When You Can’t Decide What To Do!
Question 1. Do I Need To Make This Decision?
Before thinking about any result, first understand is there any importance or any need to make a decision? Or what are the needs behind this decision? There are various reasons for this tough judgment and only you know about it.
Look, I am not saying to turn aside from anything, but at least you need to take some time and ask yourself regarding this decision. Once you decide to do something, you can’t undo it. Before proceeding with any judgement makes sure you have understood the need and want, both.
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Question 2. What Do I Want?
So this is another important question to acknowledge before making any important decisions. I am sure you may find this an apparent question to ask yourself, What Do You/I Want?
If you are satisfied with the answer, think about its need. You may get confused about what you want but stick to your thoughts. I can understand this may be tough as I have been there too. Once you understand the values you can honor the decisions and can take the, more quickly and easily.
Question3. Do You Have Enough Information to Make a Sound Decision?
This is one of the important questions to know before making a decision. It has been seen when a person doesn’t have enough knowledge about a particular topic and if they proceed with making any judgement, they us n’t forget to do their homework and understand every bit of it regarding its consequences too. When you pay attention to every single detail, chances of getting stuck is reduced and you can acknowledge everything.
Some Other Questions To Ask Yourself Before Making Any Decisions:
- Will this decision be helpful in my future?
- What are the strengths I am pouring to this decision?
- What will be the favorable changes I will witness in other areas of my life because of going along with this decision? And what situations will stay the same?
- Will my future self will thank me for whatever outcomes appear in future?
- This is what I always wanted?
- This decision would be able to change the things in your life that you always wanted to change?
- Are you neglecting your values because of this judgement?
- How close is that person? Are you aware about his intentions? What they have done for you, and what you know about them? [If you are planning to take decisions regarding your relationships]
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What’s Your Ways To Deal With Decisions?
That’s all folks! We have shared the most important and a list of basic questions that can help decide what you must do before making a decision.
If you have any questions or suggestions regarding this blog, let me know in the comment section below, I would like to respond to you. Whatever your judgement is, make sure you have enough knowledge for the same.
We would like to know your procedure or method you opt for making any decisions. Don’t forget to share it with us in the comments.
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About The Author
Harshita Singh
"Words work magic" is exactly what Harshita follows. She intends to channelize her counselling abilities by the way of soothing words. In her free time she loves play with her pets, indulge in reiki healing and when not doing anything else, taking naps is what she adores the most.
